The journey of pleasure between a man and a woman is something that requires wisdom to approach, and if you fail to understand the deferent or rather nature on how God created a man and a woman, you'll make regrettable mistakes.
The issue I'm about to discuss now is the reason why we have lots of single parenting this days, because the failure to understand this gender differences shall definitely result to a split.
Hear this : A woman have sex because she wants the man. A man have sex because he wants sex. You see the difference?
Explanation : In the nature of man, Sex is a physical thing with an almost zero attachment of perception, but in the nature of woman sex is both physical and emotional.
So women can actually have sex with a clear atmosphere of double things on guide (1). Physical pleasure (2). Emotional acceptance {love}
But in the case of men, they aren't like that, Men can have sex with a woman because he needs sex and attachment of emotion {love}.
God created women as weaklers towards their sexual organs. E.g: A woman can be crying loud injuring herself for a man not to penetrate her sexually, but as soon as the man finds his way and eventually penetrates her, she will slowly and quietly reduce her cry and starts enjoying the flow.
Same goes to a virgin, a virgin girl can protect her breast, panties, etc, from a man not to see it, but as soon as the man succeeds sexually, she will from that day feel free going naked before the man, and it doesn't matter how painful it was on that day, she'll definitely come for more tomorrow. That's the nature of women generally.
Before a woman can have sex with a man, she must have feelings for him, that emotional attachment has to be there.
Note: I'm not talking about those trading theirs for money in the name of hook-up or street hunters (prostitutes), those ones have sold their emotions for money 100%, but mind you that even the street hunter (prostitute) on the street selling theirs for money also have a man they're emotionally attached to, because every women on earth has that little erotic dimensions of love in them.
It's very rigorous for you to find any woman on earth having sex with a man she's not attached with emotionally, except if she's a prostitute.
But for a man, the reverse is always the case.
A man may have no iota of love for a woman in his heart, no emotional attachment, yet will comfortably have sex with her and clean mouth , and that's why any promises made at that hour of sex is lawfully considered 'made by duress' cause it's all lies. And that's the reason why a man can hire a prostitute just to have sêx.
Atimes the woman in question doesn't even need to be beautiful or that pretty before he will have her sexually, why? Because there's no emotional fulfilment towards his sexual desires.
Hear this : A man can use you to feed his sexual desires, infact he can even give you money, take you out, spend and even visit your parents for what I call 'marital deception' and not introduction, just to satisfy himself sexually but has no single feelings (emotions) for you as the woman.
So as a woman, yes you're not getting any younger in age, on daily bases you're praying and asking your chi to give you a man, but hear me and hear me clearly, Before you venture into the life time journey of marriage, please make findings and the findings I'm talking about is not a physical finding but spiritual, consult your personal spirit and other higher entities to know if this journey will end as wished or end halfway.
My advise to any young adult girl reading this : As you're growing up and getting closer to your lifetime journey of marriage, please do take your time to understand that you can choose a husband for yourself but your kids can't choose a father for themselves, and if it were possible for the kids to choose parents for themselves, many of you here will never wish to come from the parents you came from.
So be very careful while choosing a father for them, because the kind of father you choose for your kids determines the level of upbringing they'll have, using yourself as an example.
So while choosing, choose a father, A friend, A tutor, A guardian and A futuristic minded husband if you don't want your kids to experience half or more than you've experienced in life in terms of difficulties.
But in all, don't forget to be a good mother, cause you can raise a hero and not a zero if you strategically position your mind towards achieving it through choice making.
because Wedding ring is the most smallest handcuff ever made, so always think deeply and let your spirit guide before venturing, cause marriage is a prison of its own, so choose your prison mate carefully and sentence yourself wisely, to avoid prison break.